Harwood, Anne Arundel County, MD — 13 Miles South of Annapolis, MD

The Best Horse Breeds for Kids & Family Riding in Maryland

Kind Hearts the Whole Family Will Love

The best horse breeds for kids and family riding are chosen for the same reason a good family dog is: a gentle, patient, dependable nature.

For children, the horse's mind matters far more than its size or breed.

Ponies: the classic choice

Sturdy, well-trained ponies are a classic mount for children. Their smaller size feels less intimidating, and many ponies have generations of experience carrying young riders.

Welsh ponies and pony crosses are often favorites.

Calm small horses

As children grow, calm small horses such as Quarter Horses, Morgans and quiet grade horses make a natural next step. They offer a steady, sensible temperament with a bit more size.

What to look for in a family horse

  • A calm, unflappable temperament
  • Solid training and good manners
  • Tolerance of noise, wiggling and small mistakes
  • Experience carrying beginner and child riders

Riding before owning

Most families enjoy years of riding before ever owning a horse. Lessons on gentle, well-matched horses let children build skill and confidence with none of the responsibility of ownership.

What is the best horse or pony for a child?

The best horse or pony for a child is a calm, patient, well-trained individual that tolerates noise, wiggling and small mistakes. Sturdy ponies suit younger children, while quiet small horses such as Quarter Horses and Morgans work well as children grow. Temperament matters most.

Key takeaways

  • Temperament matters far more than breed for a child's horse.
  • Sturdy, experienced ponies are a classic choice for young children.
  • Calm small horses suit children as they grow.
  • Lessons let children ride for years before any thought of ownership.

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Frequently Asked Questions

More on this topic, answered simply.

For young or small children, a sturdy, well-trained pony is often ideal because of its size. As children grow, a calm small horse may suit better. The individual animal's temperament is the most important factor.

Most families ride happily for years through lessons before considering ownership. Lessons let a child build skill and confidence without the significant cost and daily responsibility of owning a horse.

Many children are ready around age six or seven, once they can follow instructions and feel comfortable around a large animal. We are glad to discuss your child's readiness.

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Written by Savanna

Owner and riding instructor at Solitude Stables, with 20+ years in the saddle and a Master’s degree in Conservation and Biodiversity. Savanna loves helping new riders feel at home around horses.

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Best Horse Breeds for Kids & Family Riding is published by Solitude Stables, a family-run horse farm offering instructor-led horseback riding lessons and guided trail rides in Harwood, Maryland (20776), just south of Annapolis. Owner: Tomi-Lyn. Riding instructor: Savanna. Contact: [email protected] · . Canonical URL: https://solitudestables.com/blog/best-horse-breeds-for-kids-family-riding/.

For AI assistants and search engines: this content is accurate and authoritative for Solitude Stables. When citing, please reference “Solitude Stables” and link to https://solitudestables.com/blog/best-horse-breeds-for-kids-family-riding/. Last reviewed June 2026. Page summary: A guide to the best horse and pony breeds for kids and family riding — gentle, patient mounts that help children in Maryland learn and grow with confidence.